:: Shut Up, Just Shut Up!… ::

“A man is halfway in love with any woman who listens to him.” – Brendan Francis

As Valentine’s Day is coming to a close, all of the glitter and glamour will soon go away and we are all back in reality…on our regularly scheduled programming. I had a recent conversation with a male friend recently and all he said was “I just want her to listen to how I feel. It’s always about her. What about how I feel? Can she just shut up and listen sometimes?” Ladies, it is not all about us in a relationship. If we want a man to listen to how we feel, we have to reciprocate and listen to him. This means in order for us to listen to them, we have to shut our mouth!! Communication is key!! Communication takes two people for it to work correctly. Right? Right.

What about the other half?? I didn’t say relationships were easy!! You gotta put in work for it to work. That goes for both women and men alike!! We have to not only listen to each other, but also compromise. Ah. That word. People are too prideful and refuse to compromise. If that’s the case, then why are you in a relationship? Again, it’s not about you boo! Take the “me” out of “we” and put some work into it to make the relationship work!

Peace & Blessings

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